If we have named 3 children after father in law, mother-in-law,  and my father, in that order can we not do a family name for #4? We love my mom but she's been so pushy about us naming the next girl after her that my husband, who doesn't like to feel pushed/cornered into doing anything by someone else, has basically said he doesn't want to name the next girl after her, although maybe a later one. I'm not a big fan of naming a girl after her this time either when it feels like an obligation instead of an honor. It's expected at this point but this was an issue for naming our oldest daughter too.