It turns out that there is something all of America agrees on. We agree on girls’ names, more or less. The national #1 name, Olivia, ranks among the top 5 girls’ names in all 50 states. In fact, just 14 different names account for the full girls’ top 5 in all 50 states. The biggest outliers are Lucy and Willow, and can you even guess where those names are most popular? (Answer: Utah for Lucy, and Wyoming for Willow.)

On the boys’ side, things look different. No name makes the top 5 in all states, and it takes a 30 different names to cover the boys’ top five from coast to coast. Compare individual states’ favorites and you’ll find plenty of local color. The top five boys’ names in New Mexico include Mateo, Elijah and Ezekiel. In South Dakota, Wyatt, Asher and Lincoln. In New Jersey, Lucas, Joseph and Matthew. Usually you have to look beyond the top of the charts to get that kind of contrast.

This gender difference is a dramatic reversal from the days when girls’ names swept in and out of style while timeless classics continued to dominate the boys’ charts. Today, names are style statements for both sexes, and consensus on boys’ names is an increasingly distant memory.

Find your own state, and perhaps your own style, in these state-by-state charts of the top five for boys and girls.